Finally Crack the Code on Relationships!

“After working with Thomas I'm finally able to understand what it means to be present in relationships.”

Michael (52, C-level manager)

“I changed the way I show up for myself and my wife and it has drastically improved our marriage for both of us.”

Rob (35, software engineer)

“I used to shut down in conflict. Now I'm able to see things through.”

Ashok (28, real estate consultant)


You’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns?

You're done with unintentionally pushing partners away?

With feeling engulfed or smothered by your partner?

Chronic low-grade loneliness masked as "preferring independence"?
Suppressing needs until they explode or turn into resentment?


You want a secure, healthy relationship—but don’t know how to get there?



But you are ready to make the necessary changes now? Then this is for you:

Join the Avoidant Reset Code.

In this program you will get:

- Insight into where your avoidance is coming from
- Effective strategies to resolve the root causes of your avoidance and develop secure attachment
- A formula for navigating difficult relationship situations
- Know-how for dealing with both your own and your partner's feelings
- Awareness for the state of your relationship 
- Tools that ensure your partner's relationship satisfaction...

...and by all of that:

Level-up your experience in
your relationships!


I'm ready to change things. Let me know when the program starts!

Start your journey to relationships that feel great!


This work goes deeper than surface-level advice. It’s about real, lasting change. In ARC you will, for 3 months: 

- Participate in weekly live group sessions with Thomas & Maika focused on the insights you need to move forward

- Implement your insights in daily exercises to build lasting change

- Get support in weekly Q&A sessions with Thomas & Maika, and perhaps most importantly:

- Be part of and engage with a community of men doing the same work


Yes, you read correctly, ARC is exclusively for men, and specifically tailored for men with avoidant attachment tendencies, both in a relationship or currently single.


We will start the 3-month-program in the first week of June 2026 with a small group of founding members. For this first run, the program will cost 600 € - later it will be at 1500 €.


Sign up now & be among the first to get details, and the opportunity to join before anyone else at the end of May.

Please notify me when the program opens!

You don’t have to figure this out alone.


If you have any questions, feel free to reach out here.